The BIG IDEA
God is both loving and just, and Jesus (who is God) embodies both perfectly.
We don’t know who God is or we have a wrong view of him. If we don’t understand that he is loving, we won’t draw near to him. If we don’t understand he is just, we won’t see our need for a Savior.
Knowing who God is, that he is loving and just, draws us to want to be closer to him. We see our need for a Savior. We find comfort and security in knowing he is just and loving. As we understand who he really is, we begin to relate to him accurately.
Why THIS MATTERS
We wrestle with how God can be both just and loving. If he is so loving, why doesn’t he just forgive our sin? But, because he is just, he can’t just do that. Someone has to pay for that sin. That is why Jesus’ sacrifice is such a big deal. It satisfies God’s justice, while at the same time, revealing God’s great love.
I WANT MY STUDENTS TO:
- KNOW: God is both loving and just and that Jesus, God’s Son, embodies both perfectly.
- EXPERIENCE: Security that comes from trust in God. To be drawn to God, because they can see him as he really is.
- DO: We reflect God’s love to the world around us and fight for justice.
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*WHAT DO YOU THINK?
Who is a teacher, coach or other adult in your life that was very loving, but also made sure you followed the rules? Tell the group about them.
In the passage we are about to read, the Pharisees (a very religious Jewish group in Jesus’ day) are trying to find a way to trick Jesus into proving he does not follow God’s laws. In their minds, this would prove to everyone that Jesus was not from God and was not who he said he was—God.
WHAT DOES GOD SAY ABOUT THIS?
Before beginning, have someone pray and ask the Holy Spirit to help everyone understand what they are reading.
2. How did the Pharisees view this woman?
They saw her as a law breaker, adulterer, and sinner.
3. How did Jesus respond to the Pharisees’ accusations?
He paused to write in the dirt and redirected the Pharisees to look at their own sin and hypocrisy rather than looking at the woman’s sin.
4. How did Jesus respond to the woman?
He responded with love and forgiveness but also expressed justice by calling her to leave her life of sin.
5. Why did Jesus tell the woman to leave her life of sin?
Allow the group to discuss. Jesus told her to leave her life of sin because he is a righteous and holy God and wants our lives to line up with that righteousness and holiness.
6. How would you feel if you were the woman caught in adultery?
Allow the group to discuss. Some may express feeling exposed, guilty, angry, fearful.
7. If you were the woman, how would you have responded to the way Jesus handled the situation?
Allow the group to discuss. Some may feel relieved, grateful.
HOW DO WE APPLY THIS TO OUR LIVES?
*READ TOGETHER: Love is putting someone else before your own interests. Justice means receiving what you deserve. If God were all loving and not just, no one would have to be responsible for their sins. But if he was only just and not loving, he would have to punish all of us for our sins.
8. How have you experienced love in your life?
- How about justice?
Allow the group to discuss. They may have experienced forgiveness from friends, parents, etc. They may have experienced discipline from parents, teachers, or even police. As a leader, think of a few ways you can answer this question yourself.
9. Which of these qualities do you tend to have a hard time believing about God?
Allow the group to discuss. For some their guilt and shame will make it difficult to believe that God is really loving. For others, they may be so unaware of the holiness of God that they can’t believe that God would ever punish anyone.
10. Why do you think it’s important for God to be both loving and just?
Allow the group to discuss. Ask: What if he was only just? What if he was only love? This is a very important question to wrestle with so let them wrestle with it as a group. This and the next question are the keys to this study so take time and help them really “get” the importance of both. It’s key for God to be both because both are at the core of who he is. If God were loving but not just, we wouldn’t be able to trust him to do what’s right by us and in the world. We wouldn’t want to draw near to him. If God were just but not loving, there would be no hope of a relationship with him because we fall so far short of his perfect standard and all he could do is punish us for that.
11. How does God display His love and justice through the death of Jesus?
Allow the group to discuss. Refer to John 3:16 to emphasize God’s love and Romans 3:25–26 to emphasize his justice. God loves us enough to send his Son into the world and let him die in our place. He shows his justice by letting Jesus bear the full weight of the penalty for our sin. His forgiveness lets us off the hook if we’ve trusted him, but it didn’t let Jesus off the hook. In Christ’s sacrifice on our behalf, God’s justice is satisfied.
12. How could knowing that God is both loving and just change the way you live your life?
Allow the group to discuss. If God is just, we want to learn to fight for justice for those around us. Since God is loving, we want to learn to love those around us as well.
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